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Was I raped? 

It is never okay for someone to pressure or force another person to have sex when s/he doesn't want to. Reaching out for information is a important first step: if you are trying to figure out if what happened to you was rape, consider the following questions:
  • Are you old enough to give consent? In Arizona, the age of consent is 18. 
  • Did you have the capacity to give consent? If you were under the influence of drugs or alcohol, you cannot give consent. 
  • Did you agree to take part? Sex without consent is rape. 

Did You Know? 

College students are at high risk for sexual assault. College-age women are four times more likely to be assaulted than women of any other age group. Consent should never be coerced, implied or assumed, even if a relationship exists. Just because someone is in a relationship doesn't mean that they always have consent to have sex with their partner. 

Consent cannot be legally given by someone who is intoxicated. Someone may choose to be drunk, or high, but they are never responsible for being sexually assaulted. Others who cannot give consent include minors, those with certain disabilities, someone who is unconscious, or those who are coerced or bullied into sexual acts. 

The way a person dresses is no excuse for rape. Women who dress sexy are not "asking for it". Rape is rape; it is about power and control and putting one's wishes above another person's. It is not about attraction. 

Only 3% of reported rapes are considered to be false reports. Those who encourage the myth that people lie about being victims make it more difficult for victims to report the incident. 

Alcohol is the most common date rape drug.
Over 90,000 sexual assaults in college are attributed to alcohol and 53.4% of victims of sexual assault reported that their perpetrator has consumed alcohol when the incident took place. 
73% of sexual assaults were perpetarted by someone the victim knows.
Also, 60% of rapes on campus occur in a victim's residence. It is important to watch out for your friends, even if you are in a familiar place with familiar people. 
Men can be victims

It is important to remember that men can also be victims of rape or attempted rape. In the United States, about 10 percent of reported rapes involve male victims, and many more go unreported. Men and boys are often reluctant to report the crime of sexual assault, or to seek services because they feel humiliated, shamed or confused by the crime or because they feel that seeking help will make them feel vulnerable or weak.

 Most perpetrators of male sexual assault are men, and they rape both gay and straight men. Rape is an act of violence, not of sex or sexual desire.

 Help is available. Most rape crisis centers provide free and confidential services for all people who have been hurt by sexual assault, including men.

Individuals who identify as lesbian, gay, and bisexual have an equal or higher rate of interpersonal violence, sexual violence, and stalking as compared to heterosexuals.
Approximately 1 in 8 lesbian women and almost half of bisexual women have been raped in their lifetime. 

Northern Arizona University Statistics

A 2013 survey of Northern Arizona University students revealed that in the last 12 months:

  • 4.5%  of students reported sexual touching without their consent
  • 4.6% female and 0.4% male students experienced a sexual penetration attempt without their consent
  • 2.8% female and 0.4% male students experienced  sexual penetration without their consent 
  • 10.4% of students reported being in an emotionally abusive relationship and 2.8% in a physically abusive relationship 
  • 1.9% of students reported being in a sexually abusive relationship 
  • 3.8% of students reported being the victim of stalking

Flagstaff Resources

Victim Witness Services is a nonprofit organization that provides crisis intervention, victim assistance, witness advocacy, crime prevention education, and victim compensation to assist in alleviating the emotional, physical, and financial needs of victims.  Call them at 928-679-7770.  After hours, call Flagstaff PD at (928) 774-1414 to request that an advocate be paged.

Northland Family Help Center is committed to providing safe shelter, counseling, advocacy, community education, and referral for individuals and families affected by violence and abuse.  Call their 24/hr crisis line at 928-527-1900.

NACASA is a rape crisis center available 24 hours to provide medical forensic examinations to victims of sexual assault.  Call to have them paged at 928-213-6112.

Peaks Counseling provides anger management counseling for potential and past perpetrators of abuse. Call them at 928-226-8111.

Northern Arizona University Resources

Counseling Services provides confidential counseling to all Northern Arizona University students by trained psychologists, counselors, social workers, counseling and psychology interns, and graduate assistants.You can call (928) 523-2261 to schedule an initial counseling appointment or come to Campus Health Services in the Health and Learning Center for walk-in appointments.

Associated Students for Women's Issues provides funding for the NAU SAFE program as part of their commitment to work towards gender, racial, and ethnic equality. They also offer free condoms and emergency contraceptives.

NAU Safe Ride is a free transportation system that runs Thursday and Saturday nights from downtown Flagstaff to campus and nearby apartment complexes.

Safety escorts offers police officers and campus safety aides to accompany you to desired locations on campus. Call 928-523-3611.

Office of Affirmative Action/Equal Opportunity/ Title IX Coordinator are responsible for investigating complaints under the Safe Working and Learning Environment Policy, which outlines the university’s policy regarding prohibited discrimination, harassment, and other inappropriate behaviors.  Students can submit an online complaint form if they feel they are experiencing discrimination or harassment. 

 Employee Assistance and Wellness assists employees and their families with personal and professional challenges, and helps enhance overall health and wellness.

Internet Resources

The “Not Alone” website is a government resource for students, schools, and advocates on information for responding and preventing sexual assaults on college campuses.

Arizona Sexual Assault Network is a collective voice that reduces the threat and mitigates the effects of sexual assault in our state to achieve a society free from sexual violence.

Arizona Coalition Against DomesticViolence provides information on dating violence and legal advocacy, and serves as a voice representing the needs of domestic violence service providers and the victims they serve.

Arizona Sexual Violence Prevention andEducation Program links to sexual assault state coalitions as well as to a variety of sexual assault organizations, networks, and projects. You can also obtain information on services for survivors of sexual violence and their family and friends in Arizona and across the United States.